A Touching Email
On the 4th of May we sent out the painful email that described the upcoming close of Barkles. What followed was a great amount of support for our decision and some who were very sad to see it go. While our decision to close is final, it is great to know that what we built had a powerful effect on some people. This is the reason why most entrepreneurs do what they do - to help grow and change the world in some way.
What follows is an extremely touching email from the students of Frisco Elementary (Colorado, USA). Thank you Peder & Students for your kind words and for allowing us to republish this.
Dear Diesel and Jay,
We are a group of students from Frisco Elementary, in Colorado, USA. You might recognize our user names as a group that all ends in “FR11.” We wanted to write you and tell you that you did solve a problem for us, we are sad to see Barkles close, and want to thank you for your solution.
The reason that we have used Barkles this year has been to learn more about debating. This is an important part of our curriculum and a great life skill.The problem that we often run into is that our community is small and there are few people to debate with. Many times these debates in our classrooms are short, simple, and uninspiring. Your website has solved this problem by broadening our debate community and connecting us with people who want to debate the same things we do. We have been the only class in our district to do this, and sadly we are the last. Our whole class, as well as our teacher, had planned on using this site to teach and practice debate skills for years to come. We know it would not be enough for you to live on, but we would gladly pay a subscription fee if this site were to come back or continue.
Thank you for making Barkles. It has been a one-of-a -kind debating site that has helped us learn and grow. You have allowed us to go from pencils and chalkboards to using technology that extended our debates in time and to the world. Barkles has made learning debate skills more fun for us!
Sincerely,
Barkles’ Biggest Fans (The Frisco Elementary 5th Grade Students and staff)
Barkles is Closing
What follows is an email we sent out to our members:
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Hello,
Today we bring you some unfortunate news and our last email.
We have decided to close down Barkles on the 1st of June.
To some, this may come as a shock, and for that we apologise.
For over 6 months Jay and I (Diesel) have been working behind the scenes on Barkles to build it to where it is. We have gone through many ups and downs and have learnt a huge amount about the way startups operate. In all honesty, there are a few main reasons that we would like to share with you as to why we are shutting up shop. Hopefully, others can learn from our mistakes.
1. What’s The Problem?
One of the main rules about starting a new startup is locking down the problem you are solving. Without a strong problem, you will have less people needing/wanting your product which will result in low traction/return rate. In many cases, Barkles was a cool solution looking for a problem - a reason for people to use it if you will. Had we of nailed down our problem before building the solution we probably wouldn’t have built Barkles in the first place.
2. Passion
Jay is very passionate about development. I am very passionate about design. Over time however we lost our joint passion for continually building Barkles when we started realising we had built a solution looking for a problem. We still enjoyed watching the debates come in and people using it on occasion - however for us to move forward and get that passion back it would require a big overhaul to the product, with the likely chance we would be pivoting far away from the product it is today. This pivot would have taken us 3-6 months to fully realise and even then we would not be any closer to working on a problem that people want solved.
3. Financially Viable
Building a freemium product is hard to do if you have low traction and have lost passion in the product itself. Often what results is the founders redirect focus onto paying work (hey, we’ve all got to live!) which pushes the freemium product into the background of their minds. For others in this situation we recommend financially securing a ‘runway’ (a bunch of cash you live off for a set amount of months) to give yourself that focus and dedication that is needed when building a long term freemium product.
It’s Not All Doom And Gloom
This process of creating a startup, getting members on board and iterating the product has been the most incredible experience. Jay and I look at the closing of Barkles as a “succesful failure”, a journey we have learnt a lot from. We have enjoyed over 1400 debates, met countless people who inspired us and now know what it’s like to run a startup. We would like to thank our advisors, mentors and other entrepreneurs who have helped up learn and grow througout this journey.
What’s Next?
Barkles.com will be closed on the 1st of June.
Jay and I will continue freelancing in the areas of development and design and see where the road takes us. We will still both be actively involved in the Melbourne/Perth startup scene.If you would like to contact Jay (I can attest to his great development skills) you can get in touch: Jay’s Email and you can contact me via Diesel’s Email.
Thank you for your involvement with Barkles,
Sincerely,
Jay Whiting & Diesel Laws
Your Opinions Are Bullsh*t
Your opinions are a representation of an emotional connection to your views. Sharing an opinion shows your individuality and can also connect you to like minded people. So when someone shares a differing opinion, how do you react?
Here are a few ways in which people react negatively to differing opinions:
The Automatic Defense
The Automatic Defense is a blocking technique instead of really listening to what someone else is trying to say. Often, this is to protect your idea from any attack to avoid any confrontation. This is also commonly referred to as a close-minded view which can ultimately lead you to stamp out anyone else with a differing opinion.
Why is this harmful?
By blocking out another persons opinion immediately we come across with an attacking attitude. In turn, this will lead the other person to push harder or walk away in disgust. The automatic defense can actually cause more harm than good by blocking any external opinion, thus leading to a narrower view on that topic.
The Instant Back-down
The Instant Back-down is a surprisingly common approach to avoid confrontation and an attempt to keep the other party happy. When opinion B is offered, the person who gave opinion A will agree with the other person while pushing their original opinion down as quickly as possible.
Why is this harmful?
While this tactic can be useful in some circumstances, it can often come across as a weak test of character. It can show that a person won’t stand up for what they believe in, instead opting to ‘keep the peace’. This could easily deter businesses, entrepreneurs or professional people from working with or employing that person.
The Fake Instant Back-down
The Fake Instant Back-down is another attempt to keep confrontation to a minimal. When opinion B is offered, the person who gave opinion A will appear to back down yet behind their back will still run with opinion A.
Why is this harmful?
Sharing opinions is a great way to genuinely get to know another person. When one becomes not genuine, the reason/need for the debate becomes void. By doing this, the person with opinion A is representing themselves in a negative light with only a matter of time before the other person finds out. This can cause a lot of harm and unnecessary distraction down the road.
The Listen And Laugh
The Listen and Laugh technique can come across as rude and often causes more conflict than The Automatic Defense. With it, the person receiving an opposing opinion will quickly rebut without any facts or further knowledge.
Why is this harmful?
Anyone who is willing to share an opposing opinion is already putting themselves in the line of fire. Attacking/degrading them further for being honest can lead to stronger confrontation and a negative outcome. It can also demonstrate a weak character flaw. In future, it could lead to less discussions with that person and fake debates to avoid confrontation.
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So as you can see, there are a few ways in which to badly handle differing opinions. To encourage honest opinions and strong debate with more positive outcomes we recommend the following approaches:
The Understanding Embrace
The Understanding Embrace is an ego-less stance to taking others opinions and connecting with them. When a differing opinion is shared, the person with opinion A evaluates opinion B for what it is - removing emotion from the decision process and instead focusing on the points raised.This leads them to embrace the differing opinion with humility and honesty even when disagreeing with the points raised.
Why is this helpful?
When someone offers a differing opinion, they are sharing their views from their own emotions and experiences. It’s in these areas that we must take in the information (excluding the emotion attached) and honestly evaluate the points raised. This will allow us to grow our understanding of the topic by being aware of the differences in opinions. By having both sides of the topic in our minds, we can make stronger decisions (outcome vs ego) that benefit both parties if we so choose.
The Educator
While this approach is very powerful, there must be a word of caution with its use: Many people find this technique to be less than genuine and often ‘big-headed’ by definition. The Educator is when a differing opinion is listened to and understood by person A, then reformulated and re-educated back to person B.
Why is this helpful?
Having a larger amount of opinions on a topic can give you a broader understanding of it’s context. By educating person B on how both opinions are valid (or one over the other) they too can learn a lot more about the topic at hand. Quite often The Educator will find that this approach will “fall on deaf ears” or be met with The Automatic Defense, which is why a strong word of caution must be attached.
The Humble Admission
The Humble Admission is where a differing opinion is offered and completely understood by person A. They then choose to evaluate and humbly admit that they agree with person B.
Why is this helpful?
When sharing an opinion it’s important to be open to others. This approach removes emotion from the differing opinion and simply looks at the context. By humbly admitting, you are keeping your mind on point with the actual discussion rather than getting caught up in the moment. Unfortunately for many people who employ this tactic, it’s often confused with The Instant Back-down and the result is often a slightly childish “I Win” look or action from the other person.
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When sharing opinions remember that others will often see something different. This is perfectly fine, and important if we want to the world to continue to adapt and change. Keep strong to your opinions but be open to listening to others.
Thanks for reading,
Diesel Laws
CEO/Co-Founder of Barkles
Zander Talks: Barkles.com
Zander posted this lovely bit of feedback a while back on his blog. We love the honesty and appreciate the thoughts so decided to share. Enjoy.
I got an email last night, waking me up at 1.30am, to inform me that Barkles.com was live. Great, but not worth being woken up for. So, I went back to sleep, unguiltily forgetting about it, until I was to wake up this morning.
As the days beggining routine goes:
- Wake up, find something warm to put on.
- Turn the computers on.
- Check emails, and look at what I have to do today.
- Get something to eat.
So, at stage 3, I was reminded of my awakening last night. Gladly, too. I think I first came across Barkles about 2/3 weeks ago, on Betali.st. Quite a few sites pass through there every day so you have to fish through to find which ones you actually like(+ I recommend visiting Betalist, it’s a very interesting and valid look into the startup world). Yeah, this was one of the startup profiles I liked the look of, it seemed modern, clever and one of those sites you can just spend hours on accidentally.
I wasn’t really expecting the invite email so soon, so I was rather pleasantely surprised when it came through so soon after my signup. Visiting the all new, ready Barkles site, my first thoughts were:
- User Interface, absolutely outstanding. Genuinely, beautiful.
- Ease of use, it took you through stuff simply, without forcing you to see boring tutorials.
- Signing up - It’s quick, simple, doesnt hurt and is really worth it.
But, what even is Barkles? I hear you cry at your screen. Well, if you haven’t already checked it out, Barkles is a micro-debating platform. No, not debating as in the House of Commons or Oxbridge halls, it’s actually quite. I got into my first ‘dogfight’ within minutes, and was rather surprised when I was already having other users join the debate within minutes - Okay, I knew the site was going to be popular, but I didn’t expect the site to be so active with only a small, early userbase.
So, what I do think of Barkles. Well, it’s a nice idea, and it has the design to back it up, I’m not sure if it’s long term, but it could very well make a name for itself
Please take a look at the site, let me know what you think. Is it useful? Is it pretty?(Yes!), and would you use it? For me, it’s a yes for all three. Peace.
Dogfight Roundup
Here at Barkles.com we’ve decided to go back over a few active Dogfights and see the current standings. If you’re keen on getting your Dogfights into this list in the future, make sure you share yours with your friends and get them to join in!
Overall, Macs are better than PCs. by Ben Niven
18 Agree | 13 Disagree
The main consensus seems to be that Macs are simpler by ‘hiding’ more advanced features, making them less versatile (according to the Disagree column). This simplicity and designer edge put it ahead in this Dogfight.
You can still have fun at a party, without having to drink! by
British comedy is more witty and far more clever than American comedy. by Flic
6 Agree | 2 Disagree
Here’s an interesting Dogfight that points out the differences in British and American comedy - namely the explanation of a joke and slapstick of American humour vs the dry wit and pessimism of British comedy.
Religion is the root of all evil. by Fuel
41 Agree | 50 Disagree
Another highly controversial Dogfight surrounding religion has sparked many points of opinion. The agreeing many believe that Religion is evil by facilitating wrong-doings in large groups with only one ‘allowed view’. The people disagreeing believe that the word/meaning behind religion is used as a ‘scape-goat’ to allow evil people to do evil things.
We will continue to highlight active Dogfights that engage great opinions so keep sharing your opinions and asking great questions on Barkles!
-Diesel & The Barkles Team
New To Barkles: Ask A Question!
Hello, would you like to ask a question?
We’ve been listening! Thanks to the feedback from our users we have made some great updates that you can start using right now on barkles.com.
Ask A Question
You can now ask a question on Barkles (from any page). Asking a question is easy - simply ask your question, choose the answers (or add your own) and start the Dogfight. You can watch a quick video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTO9UktqZOs. If you would rather share an opinion, just choose Agree/Disagree as your answers.
Recent Dogfights Tab
We have had many requests for this feature - so much so that we implemented it in the main area. The Recent tab replaces the Popular tab and offers a rolling stream of the most recent Dogfights across Barkles. We’ve made it easier for you to find new Dogfights and people to Chase. We have something big in store for the Recent tab in the future so stay tuned!
Sharing (Now with Google+)
We’ve simplified the share area within Dogfights and added Google+. We will be making a few more updates to the share area in the coming weeks.
1000 Users!
We’re happy to say we’ve quickly passed 1000 users! This means that your Dogfights are getting much more attention.
Thank you all for your great feedback and your great opinions that have fueled some powerful debates.
We look forward to joining your Dogfights,
The Barkles Team











